A mother’s touch while she is changing her baby’s diapers or while she is bathing her is a large determining factor in the formation of her personality. A baby can instantly tell if the person touching her is enjoying it or not.
Get right in there and enjoy changing diapers. There’s nothing you can get on your hands that doesn’t wash off with water. If you like cuddling her but touch her lightly and gingerly when you’re changing her, she’ll learn to think that her natural body functions are revolting, which can have a strong effect on her personality. If you enjoy cleaning all her cracks and folds, and like seeing a nice, clean plump bottom, she’ll grow up knowing her body is okay. I like to squeeze my kids’ bottoms. They like it too.
From Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin
✨🎶✨ (Taken with Instagram)
I’m going through a divorce and I’m happy that it’s finally official, although the image of a family is still something I wish is something I wish I would have been able to give my son. I know that it’s for the best. We have been split up for about 3 1/2 years so I’ve have dated during that time but I haven’t found “the one” I found many but not the one. I’m talking to someone now and when we are together or the rare moment he’s loving and sincere it’s amazing but I’m just so confused, lost, and even lonely at times
😊 (Taken with Instagram)
Sad how times have changed (Taken with Instagram)
If I’m the gun, then you’re my trigger,
baby you bring me closer to that point of excitement,
that point of blank, of absolute nothingness,
because you’re the recreation of my dreams,
my perfection incarnate.
It must be fate, that red string
wrapped around your finger,
somehow made its way…
Love this poem